Tuesday, September 14, 2010

Halocho #652 - First pay then Apologize

Yom Kippour does not atone for misdeeds done against fellow-Jews unless one first asks them for forgiveness.

One should be careful to repay all overdue loans before Yom Kippour; after which one can beg for forgiveness for the delay.

If one is being asked for forgiveness one should not be stubborn nor vengeful; rather one should be forgiving, the same way one hopes that Hashem will be forgiving of our sins.

Source: Kitzur Shulchan Aruch 131:4

Ktiva Vechatima Tova; wishing you a year full of good tidings.

- Danny
Tuesday, 6 Tishrei 5771

2 comments:

  1. So then does Yom Kippour atone for misdeeds done against non-Jews regardless as to whether or not forgiveness has been sought?

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  2. Yes and no.

    The sin itself (e.g. stealing) is forgiven, and there is no need to ask for fogiveness, but the Hillul Hashem aspect is not; only death fully atones for Hillul Hashem.

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